Attn; Men : Wouldn't you be offended by this?

Yesterday, I posted on R&S the horrendous notion that Gays are more likely to get anal sex. (NOT!) This led to many ugly remarks about homosexuality being associated with excrement. I am 50 years old and during my 20 years of gay sexual activity, I never encountered issues with feces. Granted sometimes there were fecal flakes that needed to be addressed but they make it sound like anal sex is swimming in bowel movements. Also, there are many beautiful elements to loving another man; hugging, kissing, his scent, oral sex, wrestling,..... Why do they associate us with just anal sex? How would they like it if we associate hetero sex with blood and vaginal fluids? I plan to open this topic again in R&S. Please chime in over there with what is beautiful about gay sex. What do YOU think?