To the woman who asked honestly about falling in love, but married: WHY PULL THIS QUESTION?

I'm sad that this question would be pulled from YAHOO: if this woman was truly torn about feelings that she's trying to deal with this? WHY not let her receive honest help? NOT a verbal / word bashing. Believe it or not? I am an EX WIFE, whose husband left HER after 18 years of fidelity ( I was faithful to him ). The way it ended was HORRENDOUS!!!!! I would have appreciated honesty, vs. the lying and the games. Would it have hurt? OF COURSE. But that could have been dealt with, and it would have ended, without violence, without deception, with maybe some respect, and honor for all those years INVESTED in that relationship. Because of the NOT being honest... it destroyed some much more, then the wedding vows!